A Podcast for Sports Parents

Raising
Players

Beyond the Net

Two series. One mission — raising resilient, confident, and joyful kids through sport and play. Real conversations from coaches and parents living it right now.

If you never allow yourself to fall, how are you ever going to learn how to get up?

Nathan Holm · Resilience Series
2Series
and growing
40+
Years Combined Experience
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Our Series

One brand.
Two deep dives.

Raising Players is the platform. Each series explores a single dimension of raising healthy, happy kids through sport — with dedicated episodes, research, and practical tools.

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Series 01 · Live Now

The 7 Cs
of Resilience

Resilience isn't a personality trait — it's a learnable skill. Eight episodes mapping the seven pillars that help kids bounce back stronger, grow through adversity, and find joy in the process.

How to Raise a Resilient Child Through Sports52 min
Why Your Kid Needs to Fail More48 min
The Car Ride Home55 min
Listen to all 8 episodes → 8 episodes complete
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Series 02 · Coming Soon

Why Kids Are
Leaving the Game

70% of kids quit organized sports by age 13. Is this a kid problem — or an adult problem? A 5-episode arc exploring what's pushing kids out and what actually keeps them in, grounded in real coaching and parenting experience.

The Drop-Off: Why 70% of Kids Quit Sports by 13Ep 1
The Pressure Cooker: When Sports Stops Being FunEp 2
Screens, Attention & the New CompetitionEp 3
The Cost of Playing: When Sports Becomes Pay-to-PlayEp 4
Keeping Them In: What Actually WorksEp 5
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Episode Library

All episodes,
one place.

Resilience
S01 · EP 01

How to Raise a Resilient Child Through Sports

Why resilience is a learnable skill — not a personality trait. The Steph Curry principle, the drive-home conversation, and why letting kids fall is the most loving thing a parent can do.

Resilience
S01 · EP 02

Why Your Kid Needs to Fail More

The tournament paradox — your child travels all weekend and touches the ball 90 seconds. The real difference between playing and competing, and why quality reps beat tournaments every time.

Resilience
S01 · EP 03

The Real Reason Some Kids Crumble Under Pressure

Three pillars of confidence: emotional security, handle-pressure experience, and relational trust. Why Simone Biles, Messi, and Serena Williams are all younger siblings — and what that tells us.

Resilience
S01 · EP 04

The Car Ride Home: The Most Important Moment in Youth Sports

The 4 S's of Connection — Seen, Supported, Safe, Significant. How to have authentic conversations with your athlete instead of accidentally adding pressure when you're trying to help.

Resilience
S01 · EP 05

Teaching Kids to Win and Lose with Grace

Character is built in small moments — not big ones. Rodrigo's beach volleyball story from age 15 that a federation president still tells. The way we do anything is the way we do everything.

Resilience
S01 · EP 06–08

Contribution · Coping · Control

Why kids quit sport (and what to do about it). Teaching emotional regulation before stakes are high. And the only thing that was ever truly in your athlete's control — the series finale.

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The Hosts

We've lived it.
On the court
and at home.

Raising Players isn't a sports podcast. It's a parenting podcast — with sport as the lens. Rodrigo and Nathan are simultaneously former elite athletes, longtime coaches, club directors, and hands-on parents of young children right now. Not lecturing from a distance. Living it alongside you.

Every series blends Brazilian and North American perspectives on youth development, backed by real experience and the latest research in sports science and child psychology.

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Rodrigo Gomes
Founder, Volley Academy · Former Pro Volleyball

Born in Brazil, Rodrigo played professional volleyball before building Volley Academy into a leading youth organization in the US. Coach, CEO, and father — 20+ years of cross-cultural perspective on how children learn, compete, and grow.

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Nathan Holm
Founder, The Lineup · Author, Raising Resilient Athletes

20+ years coaching basketball at high school and collegiate level, studying what separates athletes who flourish from those who burn out. Author of Raising Resilient Athletes and co-creator of the 7 Cs framework.

From the Community

What parents are saying.

"Finally a podcast that doesn't make me feel like I'm doing everything wrong — but still challenges me to do better. Every episode changes how I talk to my son after games."

Sports Mom, Denver CO
Mother of two youth soccer players

"I sent the Contribution episode to every coach on my staff. The conversation about playing time and how kids define their value hit exactly what we needed to hear."

Club Director, Pacific Northwest
15 years in youth basketball

"Rodrigo and Nathan don't talk at you. They think out loud together — and somehow that's more useful than any parenting book I've read."

Parent & Former Collegiate Athlete
Father of three young athletes
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